To the one who should stop hiding and reveal themselves:

I should mention that I don't call her non-stop. Haven't talked to her in quite a while... I don't send her childish notes at work... I recently sent her a note try to be an adult and work things out... I don't know what you're talking about the harassing emails either. I thought it was Julie, but this isn't her writing this. Simply because you don't seem to be on top of things. She would be.

ALso, I'm not trying to get her back, I'm trying to make sense out of a retarted situation, but she won't make any attempts. I'm moving on, taking my mind off shit, hanging out with friends, going out on dates... I'm moving on...

"if you ever loved her, leave her alone", heh... if she ever loved me, she'd try to work something out.

By the way, calling the police is rather immature. Especially in this stupid situation were in. It wasn't Julie's idea anyway, it was her mom's idea, simply because she never liked me. She doesn't like many people, so I never took offence to it.

Side note... She left me. Another side note, she left me for a drunk drug addict who tried to pick her up when she was 15, when he was 20, and SHE CHEATED ON HER EX BOYFRIEND WITH. And then I caught them basically online fucking, and then planning shit behind my back; Ohhhh, and the secrets come out. I'm fucking tired of playing immature games, and I want her to step up to her shit... I was left behind paying all the bills she left, paying double rent, and everything along those lines. I'm trying to pay them all off, and with the receipts I am keeping, I can EAASSILLYYY take her to small claims court, sue her pants off for the bills (including her share of the rent), lawer fees, charge her for making my credit go down... There's alot of money in there.

By the way, I didn't take anything over. A good friend of mine with computer skills thought he'd give me a hand. He traced ALL accounts that had her email to it, changed the passwords and moved them along to me. I didn't stop him. She wants to play games, that's fine by me. I almost gave her the passwords last night in the note with the flowers... Kinda glad I didn't. She doesn't deserve much.

Turns out she had an account on livejournal.com, spilling everything behind my back. She said she didn't plan the move. Reading up on that account, that's just another one of her lies. She tells random people online, but not me. Go figure.

As goes for the fact that she deleted all my past emails, that's something else you missed. She told me. She told me she did because she THOUGHT I did something, when I didn't. She said all these people are on my side, and harassing her and shit. I'm sure that was a lie to try to make me feel bad.

I am not trying to turn people against her, I just realized I'm not the mentally unstable one in the relationship...

I'd also like to point out... I have access to just about ALLLLLLLLL her accounts. I can easily email everyone on her list, saying bad things, spilling all her secrets to all her friends... I could easily be posting stupid things, and have everyone on her blogs and deviantart account and everything think it was her. But, you know what? I don't know why (doesn't that sound familiar), but I'm just being nice again. I am still willing to return everything to her. I am not trying to harm her...

I don't need any help. I'm quite content with what I am today. I'm moving on, and have plenty of friends to hold me up on my bad days.

Thanks for dropping by and I'm glad I could be of use to your lack of knowledge to the story.

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...thank you for faving poor HumptyDumpty!
he appreciated a lot...



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Roger,
Take advice from someone you might have considered a friend a few weeks ago. Leave Julie alone. She needs time. And you need help, counselling or something. I'm not saying that to be mean. You need to get yourself together before you hurt her, yourself, of some innocent bystander that you run over when you're driving recklessly. You need to stop harrassing her- calling her non-stop, sending her childish notes at work, harrassing emails at home, hacking into her personal information- how does any this make sense to you? How is this supposed to get her back? You're making her never want to see you again. Using scare tactics doesn't make you look like the nest boyfriend EVER, it makes you look like a stalker. Girls do not like the chase when it becomes scary. And a woman like Julie isn't into the chase bullshit anyways. You have to stop scaring her- if you ever loved her, leave her alone. Calling the police is not immature, it's what she had to do. She did what she had to to get herself out of a bad situation. You might claim you were the best boyfriend; but people who know the both of you, and the situation (in real life, not a chat room), know that the way you treated her was less than ideal. Who would pack all their shit up in the middle of the night if they didn't feel like they absolutely had to? If she would have talked to you about it (like she had 10 times before), you would have just convinced her to stay; cried, said you would change. But you never did. It's easy to make yourself into the victim in this situation because she left you.... BUT...You lost her, she didn't leave you, you pushed her away. And now you're trying to take things away from her like her security? You're even trying to take DA away from her, this was her artistic outlet- and you're trying to turn people against her.
Stop this nonsense. Stop watching her. Stop hacking into her emails (seeing she deleted your love letters; hacking into her DA account and God knows what else). STOP. Get help, for everyone's sake. If not for Julie, do it for yourself.

thanks for past by)*

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I'm so happy you put me on your friends' list, roger - I'm happy 'cause I value your friendship, and I'll try my best to deserve it
friends - such a nice feel.. it means a lot to me, honest



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Thanks much for the comment

hi, roger - thank you again for your nice comment on my piece - I was curious, and I came here onto your page...
...I found out a very tormented nice young guy

I'm so sorry you are through this hell
and I harshly, rudely commented a couple of your writings
- I felt I HAD to tell you things I said - 'cause I care about you
your photos reveal a bright side in you that you must not let be suffocated by all the anger and disappointment and disillusion -
I wanted you to know it



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Hey, thanks for your comment

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